Have you tried living your dream?

Eleven years ago, I became the sole caregiver for my dad when I was still an undergraduate.

At 24, I was at a loss when I first learnt that my dad suffered a stroke. I didn’t even know what a stroke was back then. But one stroke came after another within a span of 2 years. It was a big blow to me and my family. Having dedicated his whole life to providing for the family, it was hard for me to accept my dad becoming bedridden and unable to speak, feed or dress himself.

The frequent need to respond to my dad’s vascular dementia condition left me feeling burned out and often sleep-deprived. Juggling between work and my caregiving responsibilities became tougher. Ever since he had been ill, the only places my dad visited were limited to the hospital and back home.

I had a dream of bringing my parents out for an enjoyable staycation. But this had always been an impossible challenge given my dad’s condition.

In 2018, this dream came true.

Resorts World Sentosa’s S.E.A. Aquarium and SPH Media Zaobao production team made this happen by featuring us on season 2 of their programme, Live Your Dream.

Instead of staring at the white ceiling day and night, my dad spent the night observing the manta rays swimming above him in this staycation. I could tell my dad had a meaningful time when I noticed tears forming in his eyes, despite not being able to speak. This experience left me feeling rejuvenated and ever more determined to take care of my dad to the best of my ability. I was uplifted by everyone’s dedication in realising my dream.

💡By staying open to possibilities and not having too many expectations, it’s easier to enjoy the moments we have and move closer to living our dreams!

Thank you to my wife, family members, ex-colleagues and friends who supported me throughout my caregiving journey.  🙏

Today I am working hard to make my dream a reality in transforming sleep health with Somnus Sleep Wellness. I am determined to help people reap the benefits of satisfying sleep even while managing life’s challenges.

What can you do today to live your dream? 😌

Read the article here: https://www.zaobao.com.sg/video-series/live-your-dream-2/story20180628-870864